Katz in the Cradle

If I have to bring Carter with me -- to an event, to City Hall for an emergency session -- do I have to think twice about being accused of using him as a political prop, or do I decide to take whatever comes because I need to do what's best for my kid? Do I heed the advice of political consultants who tell me I should mention being a mother as much as possible? Having conceived through in vitro fertilization, do I answer personal questions from reporters who ask about Carter's parentage? Regardless of whether I answer or choose not to, I run the risk of having my answer become politicized.” --City Councilwoman Melinda Katz in the Huffington Post.

This year’s race for City Comptroller, like those held in the past, features a groups of candidates virtually no one cares about flailing about desperately for attention. Each of the Comptroller candidates has at least one notable quality which separates them from the rest.

David Yassky in the only Brooklynite in a field of candidates from Queens, and doubtless, his residence in Brooklyn Heights will prove a tremendous advantage in places like Brownsville and Bushwick.

By contrast, David Weprin, the modern Orthodox Jew in the field, is the only candidate who keeps his head covered at all times with a scheitl.

Despite Weprin’s having a more credible claim of being Latino than Vito Lopez (his mother is from Cuba), John Liu is considered the only non-white candidate in a field of blanquitos. Those of us who remember the late and repugnant greengrocer boycotts organized by the late and repugnant Sonny Carson (whose memorialization by street sign Liu championed) are duly bound to be in awe that an Asian American aspirant for Citywide office could be basing his campaign largely on an effort to attract the votes of African-Americans. Regardless of whatever one thinks of Liu, this is truly an occasion for Thanksgiving.

And yet, it is a different contender whose candidacy has brought to mind basting the turkey.

Until yesterday, almost that no one in the media beyond
Andrea Peyser of the New York Post (an institution almost as influential in NYC Democratic Primary politics as the Club for Growth and The Church of Latter Day Saints), had cast any negative aspersions upon Melinda Katz’s decision to embark upon a run for citywide office by first undergoing an expensive procedure for artificial conception (ineligible for reimbursement with matching funds) in order to become a single parent. And Peyser's article was over a year old.

Something obviously needed to be done.

In a City full of single mothers by accident, there are doubtless a few traditionalists who are rankled by the concept of one who became such by choice. Perhaps there are even some Democratic Primary voters out there who look askance at the concept, but none of Katz’s opponents have had the bad taste to bring up the matter, forcing her to raise the non-issue herself (in the now well-linked Huffington article).

“Having conceived through in vitro fertilization,” Katz asks rhetorically, “do I answer personal questions from reporters who ask about Carter's parentage?”

It is now almost petitioning time and no one was asking, raising a more important concern. Would she rather be answering questions about Carter’s literal father or her own figurative one? Here is a women whose political career was conceived in a back room occupied by Alan Hevesi, Hank Morris, Ray Harding and Jack Chartier. With David Weprin almost the political step-son of former Governor Mario, who made him Deputy Banking Commissioner when he was a 20-something child of virtually the only outer-borough Jewish state legislator to support him in the 1982 Governor’s primary against Ed Koch (and who later made Weprin’s father the Assembly Speaker), could it be that Katz would like to change the subject before Mario‘s son Andrew drops another bomb on her political family?

I suppose one could come up with a scenario theoretically worse for a Comptroller candidate than having one’s political parents accused of turning the state pension fund into a candy store. How bout an actual parent convicted of banking fraud? [That would be Mr. Liu]. But surely, it is enough excuse for one to start raising the strawlady of double standards which one’s opponents know from their polling would only redound to their personal disadvantage.

However, since I’m not running for Comptroller, I’ll give it a shot.

Speaking as a parent, the idea of someone consciously choosing to do it on their own, rather than having that choice thrust upon them, almost boggles my mind. I’m home every night by six to relieve the babysitter, prepare dinner and supervise the homework. If I get a boy’s night out once every two weeks, I consider it a blessing, even though I’m usually too exhausted to enjoy it.

And I have a partner in my endeavor. Doubtless, there are times when that makes things more difficult, since if one does it on their own, one does not need to fight about every decision. But most times, even with a sister-in-law who acts as a virtual third parent, there are not enough hours in the day or enough pairs of hands.

How do people who work around the clock manage?

Back when I was single, a very close friend of the Sapphic persuasion who resembled Courtney Cox once asked me to be her sperm donor; I told her to help herself, but she demurred. The request came again a few years later, when I was a dad. This time, my cultural conservatism won out. It seemed quite likely that she and her latest girlfriend were not in it for the long haul, and might not even make it through the ride back to Jersey. Nothing was going to shake my conviction that a child was better off with two parents, and it was by no means clear that Heather was going to have two mommies [and she ultimately did not].

But my personal views concerning what part I chose to play in such an endeavor have no relevance to the question of whether Katz’s no longer so unique family situation should be any of my concern, or any of yours. Having worked for an elected, I know that civic groups are reluctant to accept any excuse for the boss’s missing a meeting, including the fact that it is a session day, but I also know that the kid having a soccer game gets forgiven every time.

More importantly, when push comes to shove, most pols, just by their choice of careers, have already shown they have more pressing concerns than quantity time with their offspring. For every Joe Biden, who famously almost resigned his Senate seat before he’d ever filled it, because of the death of his wife, there are dozens, including one of Ms. Katz’s opponents (Mr. Yassky) who’ve proven capable of uprooting their household to be within the right district lines.

The idea that any candidate in this race is going to let family concerns get in the way of their future is preposterous. The work of the Comptroller’s office will not suffer because a single parent holds the position (at least, not because she is a single parent).

Moreover, little Carter Katz will not suffer because his mother is the Comptroller. The sort of person who would chose to become a single parent on the eve of beginning a campaign for Citywide office is not suddenly going to subsume their ambition to the joys of parenthood (such as they are) because they do not achieve it.

There are doubtless many good reasons not to vote for Ms. Katz, but concern for the future of little Carter should not be one of them.



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Submitted by Mary Alice Miller on Tue, 05/12/2009 - 8:55am.
Katz could win with the City's single mom vote. Throw in the same sex union crowd (unlikely allies, but single moms, too tired for sex anyway, would welcome the company of uninterested gays), and its a wash. Especially if the guys split the dwindling "traditional" family vote. Worth a shot.

Submitted by Larry Littlefield on Tue, 05/12/2009 - 10:46am.
How one can raise a child as a single parent is beyond me, and we have a couple of well behaved low maintenance girls.

We were each able to arrange to work part time when they were little, and we used to call the day at work the day off. Pre-parenthood, I used to jog after work, but coming home and having the wife's solo shift extended was out of the question. I ended up putting on a lot of weight (I only I had known about bike commuting).

Are ANY of these candidates willing to stand up for the city's financial and economic future, on matters of debt, pensions, infrastructure etc., in a city and state and country of millions screaming I WANT FOR ME NOW! That should be the number one qualification. I wish someone would give me a chance to ask a few questions.

Submitted by mole333 on Tue, 05/12/2009 - 11:15am.

You could have come to the CBID endorsement meeting. She got grilled, as did the other candidates. She did not show up to the IND endorsement meeting, though. I should note that I don't remember her getting grilled at all at CBID about her parenthood. She was grilled on her shilling for developers. Her answers did not convince, provoking my wife to comment, "Melinda Katz is SO full of shit."


Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 05/12/2009 - 1:54pm.

“I told her to help herself, but she demurred”—Gatey, this gives new meaning to the phrase “pay to play”.


Submitted by Art Katzman (not verified) on Wed, 05/13/2009 - 7:15pm.

"In short, Morris and Loglisci used the CRF as a favor bank, rewarding Harding for past political favors and acts of political loyalty."

Like nominating for Katz Assembly in 2004. 


Submitted by Sy Thaler (not verified) on Thu, 05/14/2009 - 5:40am.
Anyway, It is clear why Katz does not want to talk about Pensiongate. Katz’s connections to Hevesi’s horde are far from ancient history. Her campaign spokesperson is none other than Marc Guma, Hank Morris’s former partner in the consulting company Morris, Carrick, and Guma. As partners, Morris and Guma contributed $52,972 to the New Mexico Democratic Party in February 2001. Not surprisingly, Steven Rattner’s Quadrangle Group later hired Morris as a third-party broker in New Mexico to secure a $20 million commitment to one of its private equity funds, allegedly kicking back millions to his bag man Morris according to the AG’s indictment. Guma has also been paid hundreds of thousands from the state senate democrat committee over the years, is there a connection to lack of oversight of morris and company?
Submitted by Larry Littlefield on Thu, 05/14/2009 - 6:43am.
...is the assumed rate of return, and the acutarial accouting for pension benefits and enhancements. Pay to play isn't what is going to bankrupt the State of New Jersey.

Every actuary in New York State (and perhaps the U.S.) should be fired.

http://blog.nj.com/njv_johnbury/2009/05/actuaries_dropping_the_ball.html

Submitted by Anonymousee (not verified) on Thu, 05/14/2009 - 6:36pm.
Jeez, who the hell cares that she was inseminated, she wanted a baby.  Care about all the lies of John LIU and how he takes kickbacks. How is is a real racist shithead.  He received over 30,000 from towing company to increase their fares.  he lied about returning those sequences money orders received as separate contribution. His father was convicted of bank fraud.  He looks like the China man that called me a nigger after he falsely accused me of stealing his tainted poisonous sold goods. Fuck LIU
Submitted by mole333 on Fri, 05/15/2009 - 8:45am.

Interesting to me that Katz is connected to Hank Morris, and Yassky gets donations from Steve Rattner's brother. That is at least two comtroller candidates who are getting support from people connected to the scandal. I guess if I was involved in Pensiongate I'd want to buy a comptroller.

 I should also note that the other comptroller tie to corruption goes the other way: donating to a corrupt party boss. Both Yassky and Weprin have donated to Vito Lopez , presumably competing to buy machine support in Brooklyn, or at least not heavy machine opposition.


Submitted by skep tick (not verified) on Thu, 05/28/2009 - 6:01pm.

@Mole333,

     Your wife may have said the most intelligent thing to come out of the comptrollers race to date. Katz is certainly full of sh*% and being of the female sex has nothing to do with it.

     Gatemouth gets it for sure. Any one who struggles to raise a kid in this city should get it too. To go out and get yourself knocked up so you can say YOU  "get" working families is a new low even by political standards. The kid is all of a year old. She has full time help. She lives in a house she inherited. She makes six figures.

She doesn't "get" sh*%.

Mrs. Mole is an astute obsever of the political scene.

 

 


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